Travis Quentin Young, Arta Gee and Madison Lanesey in I Really Love My Husband.

I Really Love My Husband is a
Three-Body Problem

By Kilian Melloy


GG Hawkins finds the sweet spot in a complicated morass of sex and angst.

Writer GG Hawkins delves deep into what the press notes for I Really Love My Husband call “female ennui.” Specifically: When we first meet Teresa (Madison Lanesey) she’s making a phone call to a mystery man to tell him, “I forgive you.” For what? We’re not told, but as the movie unfolds we can start making educated guesses… especially when the man’s reply is, “Isn’t this your wedding day?” Trouble can’t be far behind for this paradise.

Sauna manages to be a universal story of young love tested by a less-than-ideal world (it’s not hard to imagine any twenty-something couple braving the relationship challenges these two run up against) while also being specific to the queer demimonde. Spectacular chemistry between the leads helps propel this heartfelt drama, and the joy and pain of young love shines through even as one misfortune follows another in this naturalistically realized, narratively inventive flick.

Arta Gee in I Really Love My Husband.

There’s certainly a frisson of sexual dissatisfaction, but when the not-so-happy couple arrive at their vacation rental and meet Paz (Arta Gee) — their host — they both feel a spark. Paz is centered, confident, and androgynous enough to appeal to anybody anywhere on the spectrum of sexuality. Paz goes by “they/them” pronouns (not something Paz announces, but the pronouns to which those around them seem automatically to default) and, when the spark between Paz and the honeymooners grows hot enough, they’re happy enough to go along with the developing situation.

There are complications, of course, first in the form of a jealous romantic rival (and reality show veteran) named Kiki (Lisa Jacqueline Starrett) but, increasingly, due to Teresa’s own conflicted feelings about… well, everything: Her marriage. Her life. Paz.

Hawkins and co-writers Laney and Scott Monahan invest the film with comedy (much of it gentle, some of it savage) and know just how to calibrate the characters’ compasses to that they fall on the sweet spot between adventurous and hesitant. The Panama setting is a selling point, but it’s the cast, fearless and committed, along with Hawkins’ direction that makes this indie shine.

I Really Love My Husband is available on VOD.

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